Parental Discretion Your parents are the ones who choose who you are to marry, so you do not have to worry about them liking your spouse. Arranged marriages are a violation of human rights, its inexorable. Most couples in love marriages tend to engage in oral brawls when it comes to family matters and decision making in general because of lack of common interests on certain issues. I believe love marriage itself is the best option. Arranged marriages influence the societies that use them by providing wealth, money, and power to the couples and their families even if the marriage is unjust. However, arranged marriages can lead to individuals not being happy with their partner.
Love this post V — not at all what I was expecting! Once a potential bride or groom passes the character test, families are usually pretty flexible on most other issues. The sound of someone clicking their pen during and exam. Another reason is that if both of these types of marriages were allowed at the same time then there would be a big confusion in many different social cultures. Their names are George and Elizabeth. It has become quite indispensible to take the consent of both the bride and the bride groom in order to settle an arranged marriage. Did you know that arranged marriages can be annulled.
However some couples still choose to get married much younger -- sometimes. In conclusion there seems to be arguments for and against arranged marriages. Gives Parental Control Parents and guardians are supposedly the most experienced and most knowledgeable about life in general, including love and marriage. However on the facts we are aware that the marriage ceremony took place in a registry office, as a result the marriage must comply with certain legal requirements. I pity for that poor husband…The problem is that in Indian society, young men and women interact with different mindsets, unlike in the west, where interaction is encouraged among teenagers so that they can choose their partner or so.
As we discussed in another article, most arranged marriages no longer trigger a negative reaction because a good number of them are not forced. As American we never really contemplate the idea of having someone choose our life-long partner. Before traveling she was against arrange marriages but after researching into the topic she change her point of view. Therefore it comes down to a personal opinion. Love Is Not a Priority Often in an arranged marriage, love takes the backseat. Not just the wedding day but the entire wedded life is intended to be a smooth sailing. Sure, my former wife and I shared the same cultural traditions, spoke the same language and came from the same community in South India.
In an arranged marriage, the bride and groom are selected by a third party rather than each other. You may only get to see, touch or know the person you are about to marry on the wedding day itself. We had met each other from across the globe thanks to the power of an online community. The biggest advantage is that Africans who have arranged marriages have lower divorce rates. It does not matter whether you love the person or not, as long as your parents like the person and both families agree to the arrangement. The Cons of Arrange Marriage Here are some of the related issues for arranged marriage: 1.
Trust and respect is the key words for both the concepts. Representative image Love marriage — Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other. Resentment drives the parents and the relatives to remain dormant in case the married couple wants any financial or moral support - a common sight seen in love marriages in India. Since the evolution of marriages, there have also been arranged marriages. However, some communities do practice them to date. In India, marriage is about marriage of families and not two individuals. A woman knows if her husband expects her to know how to cook, or if he expects her to be a working woman.
The Olympics are held at a different country, and even more rarely at the same city. In and around Kolkata 70% of the marriages arranged through newspaper advt, are facing break down within 1 year. The entire responsibility of the marriage is undertaken by both the parents. There are two issues that come to mind. Hence, succumbing to an arranged marriage gives your elders full control over the course of your marriage.
After a few months, they began to have several arguments due to their many dissimilar preferences and countless clashes of interest. In the ancient times, marriages were brought about by capturing a woman, due to their scarcity. The date for engagement is fixed with everybody consent. I enjoyed your post, Vishnu! Then to provide them with examples and then ways to deal with them. Everyone talks about low divorce rates in arranged marriage. It is a way of creating a family and obligations. Moreover, arranged marriages can be considered as safe marriages because of the following reasons.
Close To Your Roots Participating in an arranged marriage can make you feel much closer to your family, and your culture. A number of love casts are of parents love, brother-sister love, husband and wife love, friend love etc. She would have chosen some idiot that I hated, and I would have been miserable. Free choice marriage is a marriage in which both partners choose each other by themselves and the choice is based on factors such as physical attraction, the desire for emotional stability, love, similar outlooks, personalities, interest. A recent article describes some of the benefits and pitfalls to arranged unions.